A wise woman

I went out yesterday morning for business purposes. I took a bike on my way back. Before boarding the bike I stated my price for bargain. The bike man was like "babe ah ah climb make we dey go"

On the way he said some silly things huh and I laughed and told him I'm a pastor. He replied "even if you're a Pastor, you're still a babe". Then I told him I'm married, he was like "are you serious?" I replied yes! He replied "I'm sorry for addressing you that way. Your oga is trying to have someone this young as a wife". At this point I burst into laughter... How old do you think I am, He replied "26 or 27 you're a young lady" I smiled oohhkay.

He continued... Be appreciative to your husband. You know you women have problem, I cut in "really"? He replied yes. Then I asked, are you married? He said Yes but he's no longer together with his wife due to some challenges.. which is why I'm writting today.

He said his wife heard some other women make jest of how their husbands take them out, give them some certain amount every weekend, how much they spend on soup and on a meal and she was fed up. She came back began to nag and compare her home with other women. He tried explaining that things are not the same everywhere and who knows if those women are lying, she refused to heed his words and left the house to her father's house. He kept his cool untill the leadership of the Church visited and asked him to go get his wife. He went to the house and his mother inlaw told him, you don't expect someone to see poverty and wealth, and expect that person to choose poverty (her mother condones her character)

 His wife elder sister has been putting pressure on scattering the home. She really poisoned her HEART. Untill she finally again packed and left her home back to her father's house! It's been two years now.

The bike man takes care of the three children. He said he made sure they feed well, he takes them to school every day and support them in every way. The children resent their mom. Whenever she comes to visit they behave as if they Don't know her, worst of all the two year old child she left behind don't even know her. 

To all women! Your home belongs to you! Manage it well. Do not compare yourself with another, but rather make your home an example The woman left for a rich man who had canal knowledge of her and  dumped her, her husband swore never to accept her again. she's doomed for life.

Becareful protect your home. Do not expose it to the devil. Be wise.

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