Valentine's WAHALA


 
So after Valentine's day a lot of wonders did happen.. Actually that day in school so many beautiful things happened.. I saw some ladies pass with packages ; white teddy bear, chocolates, wrapped gifts as so on... And all I could say was "SO THIS THING DEY EXIST, ASINNNN VALENTINE IS REAL"😂

Yes it's a day to celebrate Love in GENERAL. Three days after Valentine's day I was at KASU MARKET when some ladies passed me lamenting about Valentine's day. They compared themselves to others. Their bitterness was the fact that their partners couldn't give them a gift on Valentine's day.

One of the ladies said "it was on Valentine's day I realised that my guy does not love me! See other people and how they received gifts! My close friend (a guy) bought his lady three good gift in one day! And see me ... I didn't receive anything"

We understand that some people's love language is good gifts and there's nothing wrong in buying your partner a valentine gift! But my question here is WHAT DID THESE LADIES COMPLAINING BOUGHT FOR THEIR PARTNERS??? are they just to only receive gifts??? Is the partner not a human being??

I don't want to judge completely or jump into final conclusion because I don't even know the lamenting People... But! It's not a compulsory responsibility of a partner (male or female) to buy a gift on Valentine's day! Not because other people around you received gifts made you that didn't receive any gift become less important...

What if he wasn't having anything at the moment.. should he kill himself?? How about other days he bought you gifts??? ... 

One of the reason why so many relationships SCATTER is because of comparisons... You're UNIQUE! Your relationship shouldn't be like OTHERS! I love what my Spiritual Father said to us after Valentine's day of how he bought his wife "awara" as Valentine's gift... Smiles .. she received it with joy. Trust me on several occasions has he bought her good gifts and done a lot.

Don't destroy your relationship and send away good people God sends your way because you're not contented!

I didn't receive any material gift that day! And I'm still alive😂.. I know we are many .... 

But I received text messages 🥰 from friends and family ❤️

Be guided
#CHRIST ADVOCATE 🙇🏻‍♀️

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